Monday, November 16, 2009

The Agony of being unloved.

“Love begets love”
“Love begets love”. A very basic yet very idealistic wisdom. Everything needs love. Love for work, love for family, for yourself and for your special someone. But have you ever thought about how it feels like being unloved? Unappreciated? Misunderstood?
The pain of not getting love is seen deeply through someone’s actions. Point of view would change by having felt that pain. Vengeance would be a rational idea for someone who has felt the sadness and loneliness of not getting any amour. There are several factors from which one could gather facts that state whether a person is loved or unloved. He is pessimistic about everything, unloved. Cynical about the word love, unloved. Seriously condemning people who are in love, unloved. Unappreciation is also a factor that causes someone to feel unloved. One can feel love by listening to appreciations and delights shown to them by people. The importance that a person can give to his peers is a great factor in determining the person’s deeper feelings. Caring for them and giving them great value can lessen the pain. For in that case, people who feels unloved, can feel that they are also important, that they are also cared for, and valued most. A person who feels unloved tends to resent anything that might trigger that unloved feeling. So they won’t attend parties and/or any social gatherings. They also would refuse people who gives them love. For they themselves, don’t or haven’t felt it yet, they are numb and insensitive. They tend to be alone, and as a result, they are having some problems dealing with people. They tend to become egocentric. Self-centered because they don’t create any relationship with their environment. Love is a very powerful force here on Earth. And so is being unloved. It is a strong emotion that entails many dark imaginings. Many of us walk in the path where love is everywhere, but some of us, aren’t. Start giving love now. That’s what Dumbledore wants us to do.

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